Something a lot of people are unsure about is how much physical contact is appropriate on the first meeting.
This is an easy one – NONE.
As in zero, zip, nada, zilch.
Remember, this is not a date. This is not a person who has already met you and and decided they are interested enough in you to go on a date with you.
This person is a total stranger and everyone should know you don’t go around touching total strangers.
If it wouldn’t be appropriate in the workplace, it’s not appropriate on a first meeting.
Touching someone on the hand, or worse the knee, kissing on the cheek (or heaven forbid the lips!) would all be considered inappropriate in the workplace.
The women who use our service are generally selective and not interested in jumping straight into bed with a man, and don’t appreciate physical familiarity until they know the man better.
If any physical contact occurs on the first meeting should be instigated by the woman, and the man should respond only with the same level of contact.
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